The Weeping Angel wrote: ↑Sat Jan 25, 2025 12:11 pm
Pointing out that I've been treated like crap isn't whining.
A necessary preface: This isn’t me having a go - it’s an observation from 30-odd years of editorial work.
If you publish something with a strong opinion and it’s poorly or sloppily written, it gets taken in 3 ways: (a) you’re not great at writing, (b) your argument isn’t great so you can’t explain it clearly because it’s actually not got much to it outside of strength of feeling, or (c) - and this is the one that rubs people up the wrong way - you’re so convinced you’re right and/or so arrogant about what you think is the right thing, you don’t see the need to have the courtesy to make sure what you’ve written is clear and understandable because you think people should do the work for you to have the honour of reading and understanding what you’ve written.
The problem is, you could be (a) - and that’s fine, as there’s nothing wrong with not being a great writer - but be perceived as (c), because it’s down to the eye of the reader and the context. And as political discussions tend to be topics that can rile people up regardless, that context is not one that leads directly to benefit of the doubt.
I’d be surprised to find out you’re (c), because this tends to be real arsehole types - in academia, the smuggest and most up themselves professionals and researchers (the types I’ve most dealt with). In politics, people like Hitchens or Rees-Mogg and his laughable ‘style guide’ - utterly unable to accept criticism and convinced of their own ability. So it’s well worth the 30 seconds or so it takes for a quick review, because it shows you do have courtesy for your reader - and that changes the whole perception of how your writing is seen, and it helps you get across what you want to say rather than anyone focusing on how you say it.
It’s absolutely a practice thing, but gets easier and faster with time. I’m *far* better at making reasoned, objective arguments than I was when I joined this forum however billion years ago that was, and that is absolutely down to discussing things with people who are excellent at making points. Agreement isn’t necessary, but you can always respect an argument you don’t agree with if it’s well written.